What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 01.07.2025 06:35
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Please share Did you stop?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
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65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Why am I not getting any atheists to debate with? Are they scared?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
If people in the UK hate Trump so much, why does he own golf courses there?
Any that are a turn off?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Why do you think there is growing support for far-right parties in Europe?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
How can I control my daily masturbating habit?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
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92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Why is Reddit blocked by the Indonesian government?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What is your favorite position? Why?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
*** Random Questions ***
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Would you read them together?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
52~ What are your hobbies?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
*** Questions About Me ***
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
How old are you? Male or Female?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Nothing too Serious
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
If you win, what will you make them do?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Family Relation Age Play
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
29- How superstitious are you?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
39~ What are your love languages?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
62~ Have you used adult toys?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
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58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Any that are a turn off?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
If yes, what?